Colorado Alzheimer’s Care: What to Do When Books Are No Longer an Option
Q: My mom used to love to read, and now that is going. Any suggestions on what she can do if books are no longer an option?
A: If books have become too long, and she is losing interest, try giving her short stories. You can purchase all sorts of reading material at thrift stores or used book stores. Ask her to read recipes to you when you are in the kitchen. She’s not only reading, but she is helping you. Comprehension really isn’t an issue because she isn’t actually doing the cooking.
You can go to your local library and check out books on tape. There are all types of books, magazines, and newspapers on audio cassettes and CDs. In some areas, you can also check out a tape player and keep it at your home for as long as it continues to benefit your mother. The tape player is designed to be user-friendly for individuals who are blind or have other disabilities. Headsets are also available so she can listen anywhere and any time without disturbing others. Check out books that are upbeat, inspirational, or funny. If you check out the newspaper, she could internalize the information and become more confused, anxious, or agitated. Pay attention to the volume. If it is too loud, it can cause your mother to become overstimulated, which can lead to anxiety, agitation, or even wandering.
Many libraries have reading programs. She could ride the bus or have a friend or family member take her to listen to the programs. Senior centers also have similar programs.
She could attend an adult day care center and join in the activities there. If she can still read but doesn’t comprehend, she could read to the other clients and feel she is helping them. This would help her self-worth. Many times, centers have reading times so she could listen to a live person read.
You could also find a volunteer organization such as a neighborhood girl or boy, a neighbor, church member, civic organization, or family member to come over and read to her. This would be a great service project for a student. Many people are willing to be help; they just need to be approached.
Reading together can be quality time you could spend with your mother. But, if you are unable to do this, do not feel guilty. Find someone to do it for her. But if you are looking for something to do with and for your mother that would be beneficial for both of you, read to her. Even if she doesn’t completely comprehend what is being read, she is experiencing an activity she has always enjoyed, and that feels good to her.